Social Isolation and Youth

Social Isolation and Youth

Social Isolation and Youth

One of the greatest concerns as we move through Covid is the impact on mental health as a result of social isolation on youth. Specifically in regards to young people, the social isolation of Covid could and likely will have a significant and lasting impact.  In the aftermath of Covid 19, life will revert back to normal for most adults, but the reality is that there will be large number of our young people that will not revert back. For many there may be a very dark new normal.

To put this in context let’s look closer at social isolation.

Social Isolation As Punishment

Question: What is the most severe way that society punishes those that offend in society?
Answer:  Prison. Incarceration. Social Isolation.

A step further.

Question: What is the most severe way that the criminal justice system punishes inmates who offend in prison? 
Answer: Solitary confinement. More accurately, extreme social isolation.

Next to capital punishment solitary confinement is the most severe method of punishing those who offend within the prison system. From what I understand it it horrible. Although some may consider solitary confinement inhumane, for those adults in the prison system this punishment can usually be rationalized. Generally, they know why this social isolation is happening and they know how long the social isolation will last. Regardless of the fairness of this punishment, the situation is understandable to those involved even if they do not feel it is justified.

Youth Mental Health

Tragically, I don’t think we can say the same for a large number of young people immersed in varying degrees of social isolation. In contrast to an inmate in a penitentiary, do our young people fully understand why this is happening? Likely not. Do they know when it will end? No one does. Can they fully rationalize anything about this? It is hard for most grown adults. Will they be severely impacted for long term? Time will tell, but most experts agree that the stress of Covid, the uncertainty of our future and the social isolation will have a monumental impact on mental health of youth in far greater number than those falling seriously ill to the Covid pandemic. 

In our country and all over the world there is an unnatural condition of social isolation going on. To be clear, let’s just call it low grade mass solitary confinement. Although currently not our number one concern, this social isolation is already having a massive impact on mental health and will have greater impact in the short and long term future. With this in mind, health experts are predicting a  need for much more mental health support which may or may not be available to all families. 

Prevention is the key here. What can we as parents, teachers, school counselors, etc. do to protect our children and prevent this from becoming a youth anxiety crisis that impacts an entire generation for years to come? 

Mental Health and Trauma

Mental Health and Trauma

There is a crisis that hardly gets talked about. If we look closely at almost any major city there is an enormous problem that hides in the crevices. Vancouver’s downtown eastside is exactly this. A growing crisis of homelessness, addiction, abuse, sex trade, violence, poverty, crime, etc. However hidden from the shopping districts, the residential towers, the pristine forests, and the suburbs, this is a very real part of the landscape that is Vancouver.

The DTES of Vancouver is a war zone. It looks like an apocalyptic movie set. It is getting bigger and more people are becoming a part of this ignored demographic to the point where it cannot be ignored. This is not just Vancouver. Every major city has this problem and it is growing. How did it happen? Why does it continue? How can it be stopped or at least reduced?

We can dismiss this to people who have made bad choices. Maybe  even assume these are people who are lazy. People who chose to live this way. However we may generalize, there is a way of looking at this that can help identify the root problem. Although, each person has their own story and their own path that led them to this life, in a majority of the cases there is a common denominator. Mental health issues as a result of trauma. The common denominator is trauma and subsequent mental health issues.

We often consider PTSD in terms of first responders, military, and people who have witnessed or been a part of a singular horrific incident. In the case of people living on the street, ongoing childhood and youth trauma plays a huge part. How does physical abuse impact a child? Sexual assault? Growing up with alcoholic or drug addicted parents? Ongoing emotional abuse? Witnessing domestic violence? Neglect? We would be terribly naive to think that these ongoing conditions that many children grow up in do not heavily impact the choices they make, the associations they have, and the paths of their lives.

Intergenerational trauma is the real deal. A parent who was traumatized as a child grows up mentally, and emotionally fractured. If not addressed, as adults they pass this trauma onto the people around them. Namely their own children, or nieces and nephews. These children grow up carrying the pain and trauma of their parents and then pass this onto the next generation. The cycle continues indefinitely until someone breaks it. 

How do we stop this? How do we break these perpetual cycles? How do we protect the next generation? I have a strong belief that there is a role that schools in partnership of child services can play a big part in this. Understanding that these are people, they were once someone’s child and that something horrible happened to them along the way. Like all God’s children, they are in need of love, compassion, and prayers not judgement.

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